Lessons Live in the Landing.
Touch Before You Turn.
A framework from The Reinventor’s Mindset™ by Ashton Jones
What does “Lessons Live in the Landing” mean?
This is the eighth framework inside The Reinventor’s Mindset. It argues that most people rush from one chapter to the next without stopping to process what happened. They finish a job and immediately start another. Close a project and jump forward. No pause. No reflection. No learning.
In swimming, if you don’t touch the wall at the end of a lap, you’re disqualified. The wall isn’t an obstacle. It’s where the feedback lives.
The same is true in transformation. Closure creates learning. Without it, you carry forward mistakes, unprocessed emotions, and assumptions that belonged to the last chapter but don’t serve the next one.
The Insight
Speed comes from lightness, not strength. Audit constantly. Remove what was never you.
The Marble Audit
Transformation isn’t adding a new self. It’s removing what was never you. For every habit, commitment, belief, relationship, and role you carry, ask: is this marble, or is this me? Did you choose it, or did it accumulate? Does it serve who you’re becoming, or who you used to be? Keep only what belongs. Remove the rest.
The Question
“What are you carrying that was never yours?”
Why it matters?
Closure creates learning. Without it, you carry forward what belongs to the last chapter.
Without closure, you carry forward mistakes, unprocessed emotions, and assumptions that belonged to the last chapter but don’t serve the next one.
How do you apply Lessons Live in the Landing?
Think of a chapter you ended without closing - a job, a relationship, a project, a phase of life. What did you skip? What did you carry forward that you shouldn’t have? What did you leave behind that you needed? Debrief one unfinished chapter this week.
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FAQ
01.
What’s the difference between closure and rumination?
Closure is structured and time-bound. Rumination is unstructured and endless. The Wall Touch Protocol gives you three specific questions and a defined moment to answer them. Then you turn and swim the next lap. Rumination keeps you stuck at the wall, replaying what happened without extracting the lesson.
02.
Can teams use the Wall Touch Protocol?
Absolutely. Project post-mortems, campaign debriefs, end-of-quarter reviews - any moment where one chapter ends and another begins. The three questions work at any scale, from individual to organisation.
Ashton Jones
Transformation is a learnable skill, not a personality trait. I build new things inside systems designed to stay the same – and I teach others to do the same.
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